Comforting Others in the Griefiest Season of the Year

We’ve entered the griefiest time of the year. While the world around us is bustling with festive activities, celebrations, and expectations, for those who are grieving, this season can be filled with sadness, loneliness, and a sense of isolation.

On a recent conference call, a client showed up in celebratory clothes and a festive hat. I asked what she was doing for the holidays, and she shared a beautiful tradition. Every year, she invites people who don’t have a place to go to her home for the afternoon. They try to celebrate different cultures each year—one year, everyone made tamales; another year, they crafted Swedish hot buns and meatballs. I admire her tradition of offering others a place to belong during a time that can be especially tough for many.

Another colleague has a huge heart for selfless service. He took his family to deliver hand-made cards and some holiday treats to veterans. The smiles on their faces were priceless, and they are deeply appreciative of being remembered at this time of year.

While you may not be able to host a large gathering on a specific day, you can certainly create moments of connection throughout the season. You can prepare a meal for someone who doesn’t have the energy to cook. Invite them on a quiet walk around the block or have them over for a cup of coffee, tea, or Glühwein. Or perhaps consider volunteering with your favorite organization, spreading kindness and warmth to others who may be struggling.

The holidays don't always have to be about grand celebrations or extravagant gestures. Sometimes, the most meaningful gifts are simply offering your time, presence, and understanding. In a season that can be difficult for many, even the smallest acts of care can provide a sense of comfort and connection, reminding others that they’re not alone.